Can you have too much compassion?

I sometimes will have someone tell me “I think I care too much.”  They will then say how friends are relatives tell them they have a “soft heart” and always let others take advantage.  From this feedback, they receive a message that somehow they need to care less and...

The Three Gates

The Three Gates “Always speak the truth. Just don’t always be speaking it.” – Grandma Jones When I was younger, I remember conversing with my parents about their experiences in life. I asked what they thought the “secret” of a good marriage was. They had been...